You’d know that you are no longer that composed, sweet and blushing bride-to be:
1.When Martha Stewart, your packed lunch and your cubicle became your loyal companion at 1 in the afternoon.
2.When crossing off guest names from your list is a daily immature activity if people somehow find ways to piss you off.
3.When you feel like screaming at the top of your lungs when your presentation on wedding theme, choice of colours and concept are being vetoed by family members.
4.When eating is no longer a necessity, just to fit yourself into that wedding dress.
5.When the thing that keeps you sane at work (besides salary and bonus) is the thought of getting wedding gifts and hantaran.
6.When ice cream, chocolate and yummy treats had lost that irresistible appeal.
7.When crashing weddings (of friends and strangers) becomes a weekly event.
8.When you have recurring nightmares of people laughing and pointing at your excess lemak and how weird you look as you are walking down that aisle.
9. When door gifts, flowers and catering win over the need for new handbags and shoes.
10.When your bonus looks tiny in comparison to the budgeted costs of having the wedding of your dreams.
*Deep breath*~
As I am writing this, I realized how silly little things and tiny details about the wedding could easily freak me out, considering how little time I have left to prepare. I hope the symptoms I’m suffering isn’t all that rare!
After careful thought, I’d have to say that having THE perfect wedding does not entirely define you & your partner nor your marriage. What matters is being there together with the people you care to celebrate your special day. A wise friend told me, embrace the challenge, spend in moderation & have loads of fun planning!
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